Suzanne Kaestner

[Richard McNutt]

Hi, folks. Please leave a response here & look-out for this childish 30year old 'woman' in Woodbury, NJ (or wherever she might be; possibly in Deptford, Blackwood, or Brooklawn as of mid-2009).

She's schizoaffective; loves her daily weed (which she says she was raised on), beer, and regular cigarettes; will totally freak if you suggest that all that + prescriptions anti-psychotics might be bad for her; said she'd get another job after I asked "What if we need the money for something else?"; has a chlamydia STD that was curable but she "never got around to" fixing (so it could be something worse); will use you and give you nothing in return.

She was my first 'girlfriend' and cheated on me -- her paranoid mind thinking I was with a pregnant woman -- and got with a mentally ill man in his 50's. She destroyed our potential marriage and family. She said it was hard being with me because we're not compatible & I'm not into the same things as she is. She claimed that "When you love someone, you take the good and the bad." That true, but my caring and wanting to help
someone who's going overboard and harming themselves was love. It's also true that we're not compatible -- but her infidelity is the real cause of the breakup. I was willing to stick by her and I never told her to stop her habits or I'd leave. She could have cut down a bit.

Of course, she didn't apologize for cheating and tried to make it seem like it was all my fault. When I texted that "You never loved me." she quickly called and said "What are you texting me? Are we okay?" It's as if she has no understanding that what she did was wrong & painful to me.
When I told her once early in the 'relationship' that she was good for my mental health, I was totally mistaken.

If you cheat on her, she'll get with someone immediately as retalation (even if you did nothing, as in my case). She told me that is what she always does. She'll deceive you right at the start, but you might not know it because she'll seem sincere. If you tell her that you love her and afterwards miss saying that ONE time, she'll think something is up.

She will have no problem lying right to your face. She has no love and will screw with your emotions. As a person learning about psychology,
it seems like she has features of a sociopath (no heart, no conscience, no remorse; they think nothing of lying) -- but I won't attribute all her behaviour to a mental illness. To me, she's just a cruel person with loose morals & lack of self-respect.

See her at the "getrevengeonyourex.com" HALL OF SHAME:

www.GetRevengeOnYourEx.com/scumbag.php?x=21105

and the new www.kaestner.webs.com